1st Thing You Need to Know to Get Your Ex Back
Going through any break up will be difficult so I want to make it as easy for you as possible. First of all, you need to know that what you may have done so far to get your ex back is simply NOT effective. This is because you’re likely to be driven by EMOTIONAL wants and desires. When you’re emotional, you tend to exhibit a weakness that is simply not attractive to an ex partner. Therefore if you’re a man and you’ve reverted to beta-like characteristic, this may be keeping your woman away from you. And if you’re a woman, begging and pleading your man to come back will not be exactly attractive and appealing either.
2nd Thing You Need to Know to Get Your Ex Back
Remove your ex partner’s resistance from you and the break up first, before attempting to try any sneaky attraction tactics to get him or her back. Removing their resistance is about using No Contact or Limited Contact CORRECTLY! A lot of people struggle with this because they don’t understand how to do it effectively!
The question I get asked the most are:
“If I don’t contact my ex, how will they know I still care?”
“I feel No Contact would be hopeless as it seems they don’t care about me anymore. What if it doesn’t work?”
“How do I contact my ex after a break up? How can I get my ex to talk to me again?”
“I feel I’ve made too many mistakes already. Is it too late?”
“How do I know I still have a chance with my ex?”
“What if my ex is seeing someone else?”
I want to help you with all of these questions, through my blog (please have a look around and learn all you can) and through my free newsletter here. I also highly recommend you check out my complete guide to winning your ex back, The Ex Recovery System.
3rd Thing You Need to Know to Get Your Ex Back
Re-attracting your ex partner is not exactly the same as attracting someone new. If you want to get your ex’s interest, you need to show him or her that you have being making some progress and have CHANGED since the break up.
This can be ANY change, as long as it’s not something you usually do. This will get an ex’s interest. Eg. if you’re usually a stay-at-home person, now is the time to go out and get active and social. And if you’re usually a social person, who parties a lot, instead of going out every weekend, why not take up a new hobby and devote some energy into that for a change.
Re-attraction is a huge topic on its own, here’s some places for you to get started!
